I'm an average woman on this planet, no worse no better. I guess most of us have the same problems and thoughts day after day. I'm as many of you have lots of things to take care of during the day that my brain often doesn't respond to my command promptly (works as a bad computer). This daily routine takes over me, but sometimes little things, like today's, change everything. I got an email from my husband today saying that I'm the best woman and wife in this world, that his life became meaningful when we got married... I started crying when I read these words.. crying from happiness and wondering if I'm a good wife indeed. I try and do my best, but I also remember about many nights that I've burned dinner (you can ask my husband too), I know how many laundry is sitting in my washroom and how many dishes in the sink (you don't even need use your
binoculars to be able to see both of them). I spend a lot of time for myself focusing on my bizzar ideas about diets and exercises (my husband only laughs when I say that I start a new diet), that sometimes don't have time to simply sit down with my husband and share our days. I remember of all the times I said bad words and did bad things to my husband, yes I remember and I regret about them. I try to be better, but I'm not perfect. Do you recognize yourself in any of this? But here is a good news for you.Yet knowing all this, my husband (as well as yours) still thinks that I am a good wife. I feel so loved and blessed. After this I thought that maybe being a good wife doesn't have anything to do with my burned dinners and piles of dirty clothes. Maybe it's simply about loving and being loved???